In my village in England, people don’t use the past participle with the auxiliary verb had. They use the past form of whichever verb they want to use, while keeping the past participle to use a simple past construction. It is something which, I’ll be honest, bothers me. I notice when my friends use the grammatically incorrect version. A friend would say to me “I’ve not took a shower yet today” or “She only done her homework last night!” My mum also follows this usage; in our area it is correct English; it is the first and only language after all. However, to my mortification and slight amusement, our trainee monk picked my mother up on her incorrect use of the present perfect tense! Further, it wasn’t phrased as a question of why she was using one form instead of the other, but rather as a correction. Mum took it quite well, countering his boldness with a quip about him being on his phone during class. (He had been texting while the meeting was happening.)
Afterwards, my mum did remark on what she perceived as his rudeness. I was amazed that a student would be forward enough to comment on a native speaker’s usage in a negative and not questioning way. I think because the trainee in question is in his mid-30s and is a monk, he is more confident in himself and in his English ability than the very young teachers.
I know that many of the students did have problems with understanding her as she speaks quickly, with many colloquialisms and has a strong accent as well as non-standard grammar. As with most lay people who don’t have much experience talking to people who have a low-level of English, my mother would often rephrase her sentence several times at once when asked to repeat something. This is confusing for a listener who may simply not have heard all of the words the first time around. They almost have it, but then have 3 new sentences to process with a mix of new and familiar words. Equally, she found it hard to understand some of the students; it actually made for a good test of English for them; can Teacher’s mother understand a basic conversation or does Teacher need to translate? I was pleased to find that with our trainee who has been in Yangon for the past 6 months attending an English school was able to converse with my mother. He spent 4 or 5 hours with us. The first hour was slow; he was embarrassed and shy and my mum struggled to understand him which exacerbated the shy embarrassment. However, after the adaptation period, he was able to understand her accent and nuances remarkably well, and provided that he kept his hand away from his mouth, she could understand the majority of what he said to her.
Surprisingly, my mother chatted best with a young monk with whom I haven’t had much conversation at all. He was described to her as a master of meditation by his fellow monks, however she soon discovered that he enjoys watching football on TV and that his hours spent meditating might not be as pious after all! The pair of them nattered on about Chelsea, White Hart Lane and José Mourinho for a good half an hour much to my amazement!
NEH Director of Operations and Teacher Trainer